Friday, August 16, 2019

Garden Update! (Mid-August 2019)


Weeds, weeds, and more weeds, my kingdom for a weed wacker!

But seriously, from a very rainy start, we’ve moved on to the sultry days of late June/early August. I’ve had a pretty busy week what with the birthday party and the actual birthday family dinner and swim lessons, coordinating chicken pick-ups and egg drop-offs, and being pregnant - pretty par for the course around here really. I’ve also recently been offered a part-time off-homestead job working with English Language Learner (ELL) students, so I’m preparing and excited about that as well.

While I’ve been occupied with all of that, my papi has been mowing and weed wacking like a maniac, and my mom has been super busy tending the garden. She is a gardening goddess really, so I thought I’d treat you all to a short, end-of-week post with garden update photos. Hope you enjoy!

Sometimes the dill plants itself - this blossom that was bright
yellow in June is now brown and depositing dill seeds
each time it is bumped or shaken

The tomato and pepper plants are
finally beginning to produce!

Jalapeños - mom weeded this bed, but the
weeds are encroaching from the paths

Some beds are still covered in plastic
to "control the weeds"
It's safe to say the plastic has had only
limited success longterm



Broccoli (and weeds)

More broccoli (and more weeds!)

Beautifully weeded tomato bed,
compliments of mom
The hover flies are being truly obnoxious
around this bed today

Beets - also weeded by mom
(are you sensing a theme???)

Cabbage bed and two beds covered with scraps of
landscaping cloth (seems to work better than the regular
plastic)
AKA I weeded a bed, it's a miracle!!!


Everbearing Strawberries -
the plants where I weeded are producing well,
but I need to weed the rest of the bed for
a third time

Green tomatoes are coming on - can't
wait to make some tomato sauce

I used some of the landscaping cloth to
kill grass and make a path to the far end
of the garden



Monday, August 12, 2019

The Party's Over


My house is a disaster area.

The burnables bin and compost bowl are overflowing. The recyclables bin is full, even though I took the recyclables just two days ago. There are bits of paper and packaging all over the living room. I continue to find half empty soda cans, water bottles, smudges of blue icing, and dirty napkins, around the house, on the porch, out by the grill. And my children are still high on a total sugar overdose.

I honestly couldn’t be happier.

We just had a gathering to celebrate the end of summer and for my oldest son’s 8th birthday. While we missed some friends and family who couldn’t make it for various reasons, it was delightful to spend time with those who were able to come. I’ve even reached out to a few who couldn’t make it to make plans for another get together sometime soon. There were food and drink and laughter in abundance. I felt truly connected with people I love for the first time in a long time.

When I first uninstalled Facebook and social media apps from my phone, I feared that I would be disconnected, that I would miss out on important milestones from my friends, family, and former colleagues. I felt a tug to check my phone regularly despite not having the apps to click.

Since uninstalling them, I’ve come to realize something critical to my well-being. When I had constant access and “connection” I felt less connected with people and a near constant level of stress. There was a nagging portion of my brain worrying about what people might be saying or debating, arguments that might be occurring, important business that I might miss. This took me away from my children, away from my husband and parents, and away from the homestead, in ways I failed to recognize.

On Saturday during our party, I was able to enjoy myself and enjoy our guests fully for the first time since we started throwing these shindigs about seven years ago. I wasn’t worried about taking photos and videos to post online. I wasn’t distracted pondering strange comments or interactions with people I knew decades ago. I wasn’t overwhelmed by the happy stress of hosting due to the underlying toxic stress from social media. The house may be a mess, the party over, but I am deeply content and certain that I’m getting a fresh start on a brave new take on life.

Groceries for the big day. I'm finding it easier at WM
to use the self check-out with my reusable grocery bags.

A friend commissioned a tres leches cake from
the Guatemalan pasteleria down in N. Phila.

Sometimes when you're turning 8, you just have
to have a piñata shaped like a game controller.

Nothing says happy birthday like beating on a
shaped paper something until candy falls out.
Yay for piñatas!!!
Special thanks: 

  • to all our friends and family who made this gathering so amazing!
  • to our Canton and Tracylandia family for making the trip down/over/up!
  • to my pal A.N. for singing the piñata song, because I STILL don't know it!
  • to my big brother, my husband, and T.E. for photos and videos - I was having too much fun to take pictures!
  • a nuestro amigo A.H. por haber traido el pastel tan hermoso y delicioso!!!


Friday, August 2, 2019

Zero Waste Progress – One Step Forward, Two Steps Back


French press coffee requires no filter, BUT the coffee
beans still come in plastic-containing packaging
I’ve recently been thinking a lot about our environmental impact with things like single-use plastics. I know that one person or even one household alone makes only a small difference, but I am hopeful that with greater awareness more and more people and households will start to produce less waste and consume less non-renewable energy. Exploring this concept and how different people approach the “Zero Waste” lifestyle has been a great way to spend my free time lately, especially since I’ve completely uninstalled Facebook and Facebook Messenger from my phone. I’ve suddenly discovered hours that I should’ve known were being eaten up by “socializing” (a.k.a. worrying overmuch about what people I may or may not know that well in the real world think about my latest post). There are tons of great resources out there, especially videos on YouTube about “alternative” lifestyles (tiny houses, zero waste, homesteading, off grid, etc.). Many of the videos have been made by single people, but there are a few gems out there produced by families – see links to a few of my favorites below this post.

Fun with re-sprouting celery
(an alternative to composting)
As a household we were already doing a certain amount of waste reduction:
  • composing kitchen scraps
  • burning paper waste to create ash for the garden
  • recycling (certain things are accepted locally)
  • using reusable travel water bottles and coffee mugs
  • reusing food containers (glass jars for food storage, plastic yogurt containers for dog food, etc.)
  • using a silicone menstral cup instead of disposable pads/tampons


What I didn’t realize were the many ways in which I was already set up to further reduce waste. I was delighted to discover that without too much effort I could implement certain changes that have made a big difference. 
  • refusing plastic bags, lids/straws
  • REMEMBERING reusable plastic and canvas totes as shopping bags
  • using cotton cloths/diaper cloths (don’t worry, they were never on a baby’s bottom) as wipes in lieu of paper towels for messes
  • REMEMBERING my own reusable green plastic produce bags, reusing orange net bags
  • choosing only loose fruits and vegetables instead of pre-packaged
  • choosing paper/carton packaging when possible


I’ve also identified some difficulties that I’m sorting out and brainstorming ideas to overcome:
  • kids’ milk at restaurants comes in a plastic lidded cup or plastic bottle (you have to remember to ask for a regular glass/cup or choose water)

o   We should eat out LESS and take our own reusable containers for beverages/leftovers

  • certain foods are only available locally packaged in plastic or plastic-containing packaging. Some examples of foods we buy regularly: yogurt, bread, milk, dried fruits, almonds, noodles (carton boxes with plastic windows)


Homemade bread
(finding the time is tough)
o   I do bake my own bread, so I’m trying to develop a habit of that each week
o   I can also make noodles, but again, need to make it a regular part of our routine
o   Same with yogurt…but I still have to buy milk in carton/plastic hybrid packaging
o   I can get nuts/dried fruits and grains in bulk in Canton (and maybe Pittsburgh?), but that requires an hour of driving
o   We can produce more of our own veggies and whatnot and “can” them in glass jars or freeze them…more on that later
  •  toothbrushes and toothpaste are definite plastic waste issues

o   I’ve invested in some bamboo with hog bristle toothbrushes and silk floss in a glass/metal refillable bottle – more on these later when we’ve had a chance to really try them out
Compostable toothbrushes and floss
(usefulness yet to be determined)

  • food storage in the fridge – ie the plastic wrap dilemma

o   I’ve purchased some local beeswax to make cotton/wax food wraps, but I haven’t actually made them yet

I am SO FAR from actually achieving “zero waste,” but I feel that I’m making steps toward reducing our carbon footprint. It has been a struggle to help my boys understand what I’m up to, but they are curious and are watching the choices that I make. I’m hopeful that it will make a difference in the decisions they make as they grow older. I know that my actions and example can be much louder than my words, so for every two steps backwards due to difficulties, at least we’ll continue to take steps toward reducing our waste and overconsumption. I hope this post gives you some ideas and wish you the best of luck on your journey!


Videos/Links I found helpful: